• naive trust
  • its when you have repression of emotions
  • when you try to trust and ignore signals
  • when you try to be the good guy
• non-naive trust
  • you know you can handle surpises, that they are not a bit deal if they happen
  • your stance is of an unquestioning attitude where you are not ignore signals but you they are also just that. almost absent from your integrated relaxed satisfaction stance that they are not a bit deal to you.
• trust should always mean non-naive trust
  • it otherway is a flake & flimsy trust
  • there are other words that better fit this state than trust
• in general, trust-building works via respecting that distrust
  • an action-bias thoward building trust
• since trust ~= subjective truth, this process is literally perceiving the world together

References

• https://malcolmocean.com/2021/09/non-naive-trust-dance-why-the-name/
• Non-Naive Trust Dance.
• Malcolm, explain the Non-Naive Trust Dance right fucking now, in one breath, standing on one foot - Malcolm Ocean